I love to control your orgasms.

Relax. *giggle* Go ahead and exhale. Control doesn't always have to extend to whether or not you can cum. I like controlling everything that happens before that almost as much!

We here at StrokeForMe.com call it Guided Masturbation. You may have also heard it referred to as JOI (jack off instructions), stroking games, stroking assignments, or even masturbation management. It's a way to take something you enjoy doing, and kick it up a notch!

Especially if I get to watch you on cam while you do it.

Let's face it--most men masturbate in a goal-oriented manner. They're often focused on something else, like porn, and simply "shuffling the knuckles" in a perfunctory way that gets the job done and not much else. Guided Masturbation can make something you've been doing most of your life feel new again! Stroking your cock can become an event unto itself, not just a means to an end.

I've been known to suggest techniques and compatible kinks that playmates have never before considered. Did you know, for example, that using a stroker, like a Fleshlight, somewhat guards against the effects of death grip? Have you ever tried tying up your balls? Do you know why doing so can enhance your stroking experience, as well as your orgasm? There are more ideas to share, born of almost ten years of experience in Guided Masturbation.

Sometimes you might have ideas of your own, but you need encouragement. If you have a submissive streak (which I prefer), you know that executing those ideas is somehow more alluring when you're doing it at the behest of a Femdomme.

Think of Me as your kinky cheerleader!

It's even better than The Stranger--you know, the game urban legend has it, that some masturbators play, where you sit on your hand until it gets numb so that when you stroke, it feels like someone else is doing it? Well this is similar, but without the pins and needles. I suppose you could say it's your mind I'm controlling, as well as your hand.

I will guide your masturbation no matter what your cock looks like, though I note that I have My preferences. I'm happy to keep whatever mean-spirited opinions I may have to Myself, if you're a bit undersized and want Me to watch; but over the phone, you could tell Me you were sporting a fat ten inches, when you're less than half that, and I'd be none the wiser. *wink*

Truth be told, you don't even have to be a submissive, as long as you realize that I am a dominant, no matter how friendly I might appear. No matter what your "orientation", come to Me looking to be guided, if not controlled, and trust Me--when our time together ends, you'll be glad you did!

In short, you're invited: to wrap your hand around your cock, but figuratively put it in Mine.