Femdom Guided Masturbation Secrets

Femdom guided masturbation makes masturbation even hotter. But there are more benefits than a  stroking good time!  Femdoms know these things, do you?  Let’s take a look at some things your Mistress knows about, or can help you with while guiding your masturbation. 

Many who have tried guided masturbation sessions find they have a fuller richer masturbation life. Reporting they feel more confident,  and many say they learn some very important skills for partner intimacy. The fun part? Many might not even realize they have dabbled in cock control, via this hot session option. But first, let’s have a quick review before we divulge some secrets!

Guided Masturbation

During guided masturbation sessions your Masturbatrix puts you through your paces. Often Mistress will instruct you on using different stroking techniques and may control the speed and intensity of your stroking.  Mistress might paint a sexy fantasy scene to increase the teasing factor. Guided masturbation sessions are typically negotiated beforehand or at the first few moments of the session. It may include a discussion on toys, lube, and hard/soft boundaries. Included in this discussion is control of the orgasm. More on this little gem of a secret later.

Enjoy Masturbation More With Femdon Guided Masturbation

We’ve heard time and time again from those who experience guided masturbation from a professional Masturbatrix, that it is a must-do, and mind-blowingly hot. It’s sexier and kinkier to include someone else with your masturbation, but add an experienced and skilled Mastubatrix and you’ve never had better orgasms! You just might learn a few tricks and something about yourself, as well.

Orgasm edging is a fan favorite, along with sexy ways to stimulate that cock. Most guided masturbation fans want some kind of delay for their orgasm. Learning new erogenous zones increases your pleasure. Learning how to ruin orgasms, is a delightful option for many Mistresses.

Benefits Of Femdom Guided Masturbation

As mentioned, Femdom guided masturbation makes your masturbation sessions so much hotter than stroking alone. But guided masturbation sessions have other benefits. Many learn how to control their orgasm and keep it at bay, longer. You know what that means, fellas. Lasting power in bed! I’m sure the next lady you bed will be happy you had lots of practice!

It may be a surprise to you to learn: Some report an increased energy level and overall sense of well-being and self-esteem. What pleasant side effects, just by engaging with Mistress for guided masturbation.

Help With Chronic Masturbation

One femdom secret is that Mistress is a great resource for help with various sexual challenges.   Chronic masturbation is a concern for many. What’s normal, and what isn’t? Having someone to confide in, and learn from, is all that many need.

Many Mistresses offer masturbation training or supervision. Putting you on a masturbation diet, if you will.  Some do offer key holding or key holding responsibilities. Check with your favorite Mistress or check out our Male Chastity Phone Sex site for more information.

Low Libido

It isn’t unusual for those experiencing low libido to seek out a Mistress for counsel. If you’re medically clear regarding your low libido often it’s a matter of invigoration, exploration of your sexual life. Often our busy lives keep us running from one day to the next and the once horny and hungry is napping and needful.  Many would be surprised to know Mistress has several techniques and tempting tasks to invigorate your waning libido.

Introducing new and novel ways to get creative and obey Mistress and her instructions. There are masturbation techniques that do not focus on orgasm but on exploring all of your erogenous zones, including those testicles to help raise your sexual interests.

Is Guided Masturbation Cock Control

Having fun with you while you masturbate is fantastic, and some guys who enjoy a guided masturbation session with Mistress will be the first to say “but I don’t want cock control”. Many think cock control is chastity or just orgasm denial. Rolling out another secret: Chastity and denial are not the only ways  to control a cock.

Here comes another secret. In many ways, guided masturbation is a form of cock control. Mistress controls how you masturbate. Certainly, this is “ground-level” involvement but it is controlled nonetheless.

Cock control starting with guided masturbation is something every guy should try in their life.  Go on, be brave, and negotiate with Mistress today. If you are a fan of guided masturbation, but cum when you damn well want to, then your challenge is to tell Mistress you want to hold that cum until she says, but there is a definite YES please, when it comes to your orgasm.

Adding just one more element can be sexy and hot and even a bit of anxiety-producing for first-timers! Don’t let your anxiety get the best of you, read on.

Guided Masturbation And Cock Control

Many may not know that a guided masturbation session, like most femdom sessions, involves negotiation, as mentioned above. That means you have full control over the scope of play before you begin.  Perhaps your guided masturbation won’t involve anal play, you can tell Mistress it’s a hard boundary a no-go area.  But do use this opportunity to push those boundaries. Why not on your next session live on the edge and give the decisions of orgasm or type of orgasm (ie; ruined) up to Mistress?

She will respect your boundaries, and once the playing field is established, relax submit and enjoy an increased level of control.

Secret already mentioned, when you play with Mistress and negotiate the scope of play focus on keeping that cum in those balls until Mistress says will benefit you and your partner. How?

By giving up more control to Mistress and gaining control when it counts. Just as mentioned above, Mistress has tips to help you last longer. If you cannot masturbate at high intensity for at least 15 minutes without cumming you need to up your game. The average woman has a desirable length for intercourse clocking in at 13 minutes to achieve orgasm. That’s an average, meaning many women want longer. Find your partner’s sweet spot and bring that number to Mistress we can achieve that goal together!

Don’t Delay Your Guided Masturbation Session

You deserve to have a great time Masturbating and learning how to be a better lover.  We have reviewed just some of the Femdom secrets to guided masturbation today, and your Mistress can share more when you have a session with her! So what are you waiting for? Reach out to your favorite Mistress or even give a different style a try.