Getting Kinky With Guided Masturbation
Getting kinky with guided masturbation is a scorching hot time! Not only is it exciting for you, but it is also exciting and pleasing for Mistress to guide your masturbation. Talented and skilled, she orchestrates a mind-blowing experience. However, some don’t think guided masturbation is kinky, and from their standpoint, perhaps not. We’ll take a look at perspective and kink, even some kinky options that you might not have thought about.
What Is Kink Or Being Kinky?
Some may cringe or want to avoid using the word kink, or kinky, as they feel it denotes depraved, unwelcome/unwanted behavior. This can’t be further from reality. To understand kink, and the kink factor with guided masturbation, we must understand the term kink. It’s not as wild as you might think. Like many words, kink has various meanings. The ones which apply to us are:
When we view kink with this definition in mind, it’s not so daunting or outlandish, depraved or unwelcome. We also gleaned from the definition that what someone considers kinky is highly subjective. For someone emerging from a strictly controlled, traditional environment, simple masturbation can be viewed as kinky. When your experience is with a more open-minded, accepting social setting, fondling of your genitals is accepted as a healthy, private activity. In this case, not so kinky.
Getting Kinky With Masturbation
For the rest of this article, we are going to come from a place where masturbation, in and of itself, is a healthy and helpful activity enjoyed by many. With this perspective in mind, masturbation in and of itself, is usual and conventional, ergo not kinky. The further from this end of the continuum we go, adding toys, and behavioral and physical elements Mistress can employ through guided masturbation sessions, the more kinky it is!
Share With Mistress Your Kinky History
If you are interested in increasing the kink with your guided masturbation sessions, then Mistress needs to know where to begin. A bit of erotic confession with your session is more exciting than you might think! But if confessing your naughty secrets to a Mistress on a first call is too daunting, then the down and dirty can wait. However, do start off with your expectations. Yes, you want an orgasm or ruined orgasm, or, for the brave, leave it up to Mistress.
Getting back to those erotic confessions. Don’t be surprised if you feel that boundary drop away quicker than you expected. We know when you get wound up, those moaning lips tend to spill a little secret now and again. Imagine it. She starts with the basics, different strokes, varying the intensity, and winding up that orgasmic response, resulting in an explosive orgasm.
Another tip: discuss any hard boundaries you might have. No anal is a common one. Indicate soft boundaries, meaning it’s interesting, but you are unsure. Of course, include things you know you enjoy. Let her know if you are interested in exploring and having those soft boundaries teased, and perhaps come to fruition. Mistress is experienced at guiding not only that cock, but personal growth as well. Most people just need a trusted play partner, and to feel they are in a safe place, to open up, be vulnerable and have the time of their lives.
Getting Kinky
The following options are not must-dos for everyone, but a guide to your options to increase the kink factor. Make note of the items that make you go Yes, Yumm, or Hum! Take your list and discuss it with your Mistress and see how you might include them in your sessions.
DIY Sex Toys– Ask Mistress how to make homemade masturbation toys. Popular options are bubble wrap, with small bubbles. Using a different lube, like olive oil or coconut oil. (Don’t go the inexpensive route for lubrication, by the way.) Using a soft tie, like a shoelace, can work wonders tying up the testicles and penis (base).
Toys,Toys, Toys – If your budget and boundaries allow, having a stash of various toys makes guided masturbation very kinky. The market is saturated with various penis sleeves and masturbation toys for men. Cock rings and leather cock harnesses are aesthetically appealing as well as for increasing the submissive factor of feeling owned. Feeling very adventurous? From prostate massagers to butt plugs, anal play is a mind-blowing way to get kinky with Mistress. If you include remotely controlled toys, you’ve reached level kink-con 8. Your choices can be overwhelming. Discuss your options and interests with Mistress, to guide your purchases.
Getting Even Kinkier
Nipple Play– Many guys have sensitive nipples and just don’t know it. I guess people don’t consider it masculine enough to become aroused by rubbing or pinching those nips, so guys don’t even go there? I don’t know. But I do know you might be missing out. Including toys like nipple suckers or light clamps to start with, masturbation can feel and LOOK very kinky.
Ball Work- Rubbing, massaging, and lightly tapping the testicles, and taint area is very arousing once you are already very aroused. Having Mistress tell you to do so is ultra-kinky.
Cum Eating– From tasting pre-cum (oh KINKY!) to eating your load of ejaculate (Super-Kinky) this is a very common desire and growth direction for many exploring getting kinky with their guided masturbation.
Play With Increased Levels Of Cock Control
This delightful option deserves particular attention. Some see Guided Masturbation on one level as cock control “light.” Meaning, you follow directions, you allow Mistress to instruct and you obey. It’s hot and a lot of fun, but the control ends there. For those who want to soar to the other end of the kinky spectrum when it comes to guided masturbation, you must add elements of cock control. For those whose penises just shriveled backward, please relax! Cock control doesn’t necessarily mean chastity. It could, but not always.
Cock control could be orgasm-edging training. Learning how to perform various methods for a ruined orgasm. It could mean you learn many different ways to orgasm, aside from the traditional wanking. Turning over control of your orgasm. Mistress is the one to decide if you orgasm, ruin the orgasm, or are denied altogether.