Teasing My Hubby

When I was in grad school, I learned about teasing. My boyfriend wanted to have sex all the time. At first it was okay, but after a while, it drove me crazy. I had heard stories that men craved sex all the time, but I hadn’t really believed them. My boyfriend proved them right. It wasn’t that he wasn’t a good lover. Far from it. And I love sex as much as the next person, but three times a day over an extended period of time is a bit much.

I knew that he was someone that I wanted to keep in my life and in my bed, so I had to come up with a solution that was agreeable to both of us. I began by looking up “alternatives to intercourse” on the internet. After doing my research, I came up with a plan to keep him satisfied and me sane.

Sexy Pictures and Lingerie

First, I got some really sexy clothes and lingerie. At the time, I was 25  and my body was in great shape. I ran track for the university and was on their swim team. I considered myself an athlete, not a fashion model, so I did some more research on erotic photography. With the help of a friend whose hobby was taking pictures, I got some taken of me in various positions and stages of undress.

I actually kind of liked doing them. I got lingerie in every color that looked good on my long, lean and tanned body. Black, red, blue…you name it and I had it. I even got some shoes that had heels so high that I had to learn how to stand on them so the pictures didn’t look awkward. I did my hair and make-up. Some of the photos looked classy and some of them looked trashy as hell.  But, you see, my point in doing both kinds was so that my man would have a choice when he looked at them.

Not Just Teasing

I thought he was going to pass out when he saw them. I gave them to him as the last of his birthday gifts. We had ordered Chinese food and were sitting on his sofa, eating and opening his gifts. I had had prints made of the best 20 pictures. I had not given him a way to put them on his computer. As he was staring, open mouthed and with eyes glazed, I told him that these pictures were for his eyes only and that I would do him great bodily harm if I found them on his computer.

He was also not to show them to anyone. He nodded slowly, still staring.  These were for times, I told him, when I wasn’t around and he was aroused and wanting me. I had also gotten him a small video camera with a mini tripod and told him that I wanted him to record himself stroking while looking at the pictures.

I told him that I loved to watch him masturbate and that I wanted to teach him stroking games and how to hold on stroke for a long time without cumming. He loved the idea.

Guiding Teasing

So I started telling him when to stroke his cock and how to stroke it, even when I was not around. I would come back from class to find videos of him masturbating waiting for me. I loved watching him move and moan. It was so sexy. I also loved the power it gave me. I now had the power to tell him when and how and if he could stroke his own cock! How great is that for any woman?

Now, years later, the two of us are married. Our sex life is fantastic. He still gets his stroking orders from me and I now only let him cum sometimes. I feel that this practice makes him a much better, much more patient lover.  For this reason, I leave him little love notes every day that contain stroking instructions that he must follow to the letter. I make him film himself as proof that he is being obedient.

He loves the fact that I control our sexual relationship totally. He has no say. I tell him what to do and when to do it. This way, when we do have intercourse, he feels like it is something rare and different. It never gets old for either of us. This is the way I saved my relationship with an absolutely great guy. If I hadn’t taken over the direction of our sex life, we would have never made it. I’m glad I did.

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